Conversation without sound is more of a challenge than people may realize. Emitting sound is a quintessential part of how we as humans conduct our lives day to day. There is so much we rely on that involves speech that without it, our lives become highly inefficient. In my 15 minutes of silence I found myself often struggling to get even simple tasks accomplished in terms of communicating basic terms. My partner asked me what my name was and articulating it without sound or writing was impossible for me. Since I’ve never had to communicate without sound, I had no skill set to draw upon to help maneuver through a conversation with another person. It was just a lot of pointing and head shaking. My partner had to act more as a facilitator than as strictly a responder, as I was only really able to confirm or deny things throughout the talk with any sort of efficiency. The conversation as a whole was very laborious and not conducive to any sort of quick and timely back and forth.
With the difficulty on my part to even communicate simple things, my partner ended up leading the conversation almost entirely. He asked the questions, I attempted to respond in a timely manner and with some form of accuracy. If there would have been multiple people that I would have had to try and communicate with, I likely would have had to pause often to wait for the others to allow me time to respond. Not to mention the lengthy pause while they attempt to interpret my words. The power of the conversation is definitely in the hands of my partner. They can control the entire flow of the conversation and I’m subject to their tempo due to my inability to respond quickly.
If I was trying to talk to a culture that had a spoken language and mine didn’t, I feel that the other culture would have the advantage solely on the basis that they could communicate faster with their own kind and therefore bring about more examples to help get their point across to me and mine. Not only that, but you can only point and paint so many things. There are limitations that aren't seen in speech. Furthermore, the speaking culture would likely see themselves as more advanced as the my speechless culture. This would create a whole separate set if issues itself. A modern day example of this would be seen between humans and chimpanzees to an extent. Though there is no mutual spoken language shared, there is common ground through symbols and pointing that can help bridge the gap.
Speaking without any sort of cues to indicate tone or any sense of emphasis to any part of the conversation was awkward and clumsy. This was easier to do than not speaking at all, but it made it hard to indicate any sort of emotion or feeling. Truthfully it resulted in a lot of frustration and laughter on both parties accounts due to the conversation being so dull. Without any physical embellishments to help guide each other through the other persons intentions for their statement, it was tough to move along the conversation.
Non-verbal “signs” within our verbal construct are absolutely critical to communication. Without them the words and phrases are meaningless and emotion is never interpreted. You can tell what a person is feeling strictly from watching their body. From frowns to laughs to clenching, all of these things translate to understanding to the other person and allow for clear communication.
The adaptive benefit to gaining the ability to read body language is ideal for higher level communication. It allows for higher thought and the ability to capture and elicit emotion. Being able to sense fear by reading someones body language could help keep someone alive. Clear communication could help direct a person to water that’s not easily visible or allow groups to discuss hunting areas and paths to places they've been. Body language emits emotion and plays a vital role to attracting mates, this would allow for more communication between males and females. Someone with some sort of social disorder may have an issue interpreting body language. This would have been a deadly issue to have back in the days of hunting and gathering as clear communication was vital.
Great discussion and description of your first experiment and well done on your explanation of power in the conversation.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your conclusion regarding speaking vs. non-speaking cultures. Can we think of a real-life example involving two humans, since that would mirror your experiment? To find a real life example of this experiment, we need to find a situation where you have a speaking population and another group that doesn't speak that language. We see that in the interaction between English speakers and non-English speaking immigrant populations. Think about how non-English speaking immigrants are treated in Southern California? Are they treated as equals?
Part B:
I would have liked more information on how your partner responded. Often that is the most interesting part of this experiment with some even getting angry or upset and walking out.
I don't disagree with your conclusions regarding the information we receive from body language, but you are only considering the situation where body language matches and supports the information you receive from spoken language. What does it tell you when the body language doesn't match the spoken language? Humans tend to use body language as a type of lie detector. If spoken words don't match with the body language, we are more inclined to believe the body language and doubt the words. Think about how being able to detect liars might help an individual's ability to survive and reproduce (which applies to the next section).
Okay on the benefits of body language, b
"Someone with some sort of social disorder may have an issue interpreting body language."
Can you be more specific? Those who are in the autism spectrum or those who are blind (though they can read vocal intonation).
You don't address the final question which asked for an example of when it would be an advantage for you to not read body language. So when might body language of others mislead you and it would be better to ignore it? Do all cultures use the same system of body language? If you travel to another country, can you trust the information you get from their body language?